Hospice Helps Dying Man Lose His Virginity

[voivod]

Hospice Helps Dying Man Lose His Virginity
Saturday, January 27, 2007


Thanks to a church-run hospice, one disabled man was granted his dying wish: to lose his virginity.

22-year-old Nick Wallis, who has muscular dystrophy, had hoped to experience sex before he died. After telling staff at the Douglas House hospice in Oxford of his wish, they decided to help him, reported London's Daily Telegraph.

Wallis had hoped to form a relationship through which to experience sex, but it just never happened.

"I had hoped to form a relationship when I went to university, but it didn't happen. I had to recognize that if was to experience sex I would have to pay for it out of my savings. My mind was made up before I discussed it with anyone else," Wallis said.

"I found an advert from a sex worker in a magazine for the disabled," Wallis said. "The initial contact was by email and then by phone."

It was arranged for the prostitute to visit Wallis' home while his parents went out.

"It was a decision two years in the making and I discussed it with my carers and my parents. Telling my mother and father was the hardest part, but in the end they gave me their support," Wallis told the Telegraph.

The hospice staff consulted a solicitor, clergy, and health care professionals before agreeing to assist Wallis.

Sister Frances, the founder of the hospice, described Wallis as "delightful, intelligent and aware young man."

"I know that some people will say 'You are a Christian foundation. What are you thinking about?' But we are here for all faiths and none," she said.

"It is not our job to make moral decisions for our guests. We came to the conclusion that it was our duty of care to support Nick emotionally and to help ensure his physical safety."

Wallis said the experience was not quite what he had hoped.

"It was not emotionally fulfilling, but the lady was very pleasant and very understanding. I do not know whether I would do it again. I would much rather find a girlfriend, but I have to be realistic."

Wallis made the decision to talk about his experience as part of the BBC documentary series about life inside Douglas House and its associated children's hospice, Helen House.

[darthadv]

did his insurance cover it? sorry...

[wham bam will rock]

Much respect to Douglas House Hospice in Oxford.

Lucky for the kid, he lives in England and not the States.

If it was Oxford, Mississippi, there would have been protests galore.

[the_atomic_punks_rule]

i feel a terminal disease coming on...$5,000 call girl please!

[ZeoBandit]

At least he realized that sex without love isn't worth it.

[voivod]

At least he realized that sex without love isn't worth it.

Sounds like a Journey song...

[Menlow]

At least he realized that sex without love isn't worth it.

But it sure can be fun.

[the_atomic_punks_rule]

At least he realized that sex without love isn't worth it.

let's see...first, 80% of the people on this forum aren't going to VH 07 and now I find out that sex without love isn't worth it.

i hereby turn it my login.

[Red]

let's see...first, 80% of the people on this forum aren't going to VH 07 and now I find out that sex without love isn't worth it.

i hereby turn it my login.

Sex without love?

The real thing is "poundcake".....

[cokemach1]

That's a tough one. If it were me, I'd want to "know" the feeling. But I can see the other side as well.

Well, it is a bit more empty without love.

But then again, he doesn't have to:

Take out the trash
Clean the kitchen
Wash the cars
Change the oil
Re-do the bathroom

I can go on here.

I kid, I kid!

[LLFHS]

did his insurance cover it? sorry...

Awesome!!!

[LLFHS]

At least he realized that sex without love isn't worth it.

"worth it"?
You need to switch places with me sometime, son.

You'll have weekends worthy of a 6 hour opera.

[Menlow]

did his insurance cover it? sorry...

It reminds me of a joke.

Two guys are getting vasectomies. The nurse explains to each one that they need to clear out any stored semen before the procedure. The first guy goes into the waiting room and the nurse gives him a hand job. The second guy enters and the nurse gives him a blow job. The first guy asks the nurse "hey, how come he got a blow job and I only got a hand job?" The nurse says "that's the difference between Blue Cross/Blue Shield and an HMO."

[JCJanko]

It reminds me of a joke.

Two guys are getting vasectomies. The nurse explains to each one that they need to clear out any stored semen before the procedure. The first guy goes into the waiting room and the nurse gives him a hand job. The second guy enters and the nurse gives him a blow job. The first guy asks the nurse "hey, how come he got a blow job and I only got a hand job?" The nurse says "that's the difference between Blue Cross/Blue Shield and an HMO."

I have to imagine "taking it up the ass" could fit in here somewhere...

[map57]

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