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12.11.06, 10:40 PM #1
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Dilemma
Ok I've dated this girl for 2 months and she has a 5 month old daughter(not mine, the deadbeat father is off god knows where). She's starting to get on my case about not my parents not knowing that she has a kid and I just have no damn clue to tell them. Do I tell them, should we both tell them, should she tell them what? and what kind of reaction should I expect.
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12.11.06, 10:48 PM #2
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I have a question... What is the big deal NOT telling them? I'm not sure I understand...
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12.11.06, 10:49 PM #3
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Your 20.....dump her and I'll take care of her, i'll throw her a few bucks if ya want......go to college or somethin'....
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12.11.06, 10:49 PM #4
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What's the big deal? You're 20 years old, you should be able to do what you want.
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12.11.06, 11:06 PM #5
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When I was 20, I was bad...I woulda porked her , told her I had to go to the can, and took the fuck off.....Hide behind trees , bushes ,ran without clothes , just get a cab and split....
What's wrong with you kids today....?
You know what, you're old ,20...Holy crap...You should just get married after knowing her for 2 months and support that child ! You musta been a virgin or some shit right....?
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12.11.06, 11:32 PM #6
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Your 20, there is no reason to keep anything from anybody. Sure, people might be upset but that's just part of life. Get used to the idea of sometimes upseting people whenever you do what it is you feel you need to do.
Keeping secrets from parents is something children do.
Also, you should leave your girlfriend out of all this. You just started dating her so you should attempt to keep it "fun" for as long as possible. Including her in this talk your about to have with your parents will only make thing's more intense between the two of you (not a good thing in my opinion).
Hope this helps.Last edited by willy4pres; 12.11.06 at 11:36 PM.
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Basically, what Willy is sayin' is , pay for that kid, get married quick....have more.....
Keep it fun....
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12.12.06, 12:11 AM #9
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Ummm, you would think that only if your retarded. Read my post again brother, or have a friend read it to you.
Ohhhhhh hell, ill do it for you. Imagine me wearing a big red Barny outfit, that should keep you interested.
Summary:
1. You don't need to keep anything from anyone.
2. Sometimes your actions will upset people, get over it since it won't be the last time it happens.
3. Keep your girlfriend out of the discussion since it will only make your relationship more intense.
4. You just started dating this person, relax and make it fun for her (and you) for as long as possible.
There you go muffdiver. If that doesn't help try taking a shit and wiping your ass with your bare hand. After that happens stop and stare at yourself smelling your hand while looking in the bathroom mirror, do this for 52 minutes. If this doesn't make things clear shoot me a PM, I have other ideas that could work.
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Don't you talk like that, I know your an Olympian, A Special Olympian.....
And the preferred usage is "MENTALLY CHALLENED"....
You fuckin' idiot with no sense of humour.....Go beat somebody up, Mr. Serious....
You are saving someone's life here I guess hey , ....
Why don't you just say,...."Don't be an idiot like I was when I first got laid"
Go out and dig a hole in the snow , next time you gonna shit....
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Dude, why did you alter that photo? Your a good looking guy, don't be ashamed.
Last edited by willy4pres; 12.12.06 at 12:59 AM.
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Hee heee.....Lmao....
Honestly, back to the topic at hand.You shouldn't let a kid fall in love with his first pussy taste, it's a mistake ....You know , you lived it, show him your old school pic....
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muff, is there something wrong with you today?!
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