Ladies, a question...

**perticelli** · 06.12.06, 10:54 AM

Since I cant figure out how to post a poll, i'll ask the question. If anyone knows how to do a poll, feel free to post it and close this. I want the ladies to feel secure in their anonyminity if they choose..

Ok, Simple question:

What is more important?

A. Emotional needs fulfilled and supported?

B. Physical needs fulfilled and supported?

Any comments as well, if you feel the spirit move you..

Fella's, feel free to make your guess or opine's known as well.

I feel like they may be intertwined, but let's see what the ladies say...

**smithjc** · 06.12.06, 10:56 AM

Can't there be a balance? Why one or the other? 5150?

**perticelli** · 06.12.06, 10:58 AM

there are no right or wrong anwers..some may feel a balance is needed, some may feel it's one or the other..
We dummy's(men) want to hear from all of you...

Oh, and this isnt directed only towards couples..its really about women in genral, not relationships...

**racefan8** · 06.12.06, 11:00 AM

Duh, we're women - we want it all!

**smithjc** · 06.12.06, 11:03 AM

What is more important?

A. Emotional needs fulfilled and supported?

B. Physical needs fulfilled and supported?

A little of both, half and half I'd say. I haven't been in an l/t for a while, but now that I'm a little older (a little) I'd say there's always room for compromise. There can't be one or the other, there has to be both, and it has to work both ways for both partners.

Just like my favorite 5150 song.

**perticelli** · 06.12.06, 11:05 AM

I knew it..., if i didnt make it a poll. i'd get typical lady answers...vague, demented and confusing..they speak in tongues!

can someone close this and ill figure out how to make it a poll?

And for the record, you ladies DONT want it all..you cant handle ALL of it

**smithjc** · 06.12.06, 11:10 AM

well that's my answer and I'm sticking to it. does it need clarification to be understood or something? I think it makes perfect sense. Both partners need to compromise and contribute equally.

btw - I can handle it all quite nicely but thanks for your concern.

**perticelli** · 06.12.06, 11:26 AM

what im saying is, it doesnt have to be answered only in the contecxt of a relationship..I'd actually prefer it not be...

relationships make all of us braindamaged anyway..

**Greenpaw** · 06.12.06, 11:52 AM

If you are with the person you were meant to be with, A would lead to B.

Just my .02

**perticelli** · 06.12.06, 11:53 AM

Agreed Paw.
But i want to ask the ladies in a context that isnt about being a 'couple'.
I want to know how they answer it as individuals first...

**Van Squalen** · 06.12.06, 12:20 PM

Butter on my biscuit

honeydew my melon

cherries on bananas

need a second helping

Oh wait, what are we talking about?

**smithjc** · 06.12.06, 12:22 PM

Originally Posted by perticelli

What is more important?

A. Emotional needs fulfilled and supported?

B. Physical needs fulfilled and supported?

Any comments as well, if you feel the spirit move you..

Fella's, feel free to make your guess or opine's known as well.

I feel like they may be intertwined, but let's see what the ladies say...

Okay I'll bite but not hard...............

A. first b/c you gotta have a connection, a meeting of the minds first. Take the good with the bad, emotional support is important. It shows that the guy cares about you. I'm not in to analyzing every facet of how I'm feeling, that bores me. But for someone to be there during good times, bad times, that's important to me.

B. second b/c that would complete the picture. It is not rated as high with me b/c I'd wanna know that the guy is not completely mimbo material. He's gotta have something going on upstairs as opposed to downstairs. As long as there's a chemistry there, it's all good. It wouldn't even have to be every day, just as long as everything else is going on too.

Just my opines of course.

btw - Squalen you funny.