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    Default 40% lose virginity by 14th b'day, survey sez

    BY BILL HUTCHINSON
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    Urban teens are increasingly losing their virginity before they can legally drive.
    A new survey shows four out of 10 city kids say they have had intercourse before age 14, and have engaged in oral and even anal sex by 17.

    "This study makes clear that urban young adults engage in a variety of sexual behavior beyond vaginal intercourse," said Dr. Danielle Ompad, who authored the survey for The New York Academy of Medicine.

    Ompad said the findings raise concerns about the possibility of a boom in sexually transmitted diseases among teens who don't know about safe sex.

    "Sex education and intervention programs should address the risk for the unintended consequences of sexual behavior," Ompad said.

    The study, published in The Archives of Sexual Behavior, examined the sexual habits of 2,311 Baltimore youths. But Ompad said, "I don't think other cities would be too different."

    The study showed that 42% had engaged in vaginal intercourse by the age of 14. About 14% of kids said they had sex before the age of 13, a 9% jump from a similar survey by the Centers for Disease Control in 1995.

    Former radio sex therapist Judy Kuriansky, author of "Generation Sex," said she found the results disturbing, but not surprising. Kuriansky said 14 is far too young to have sex.

    "They're not emotionally capable of dealing with this," she told the Daily News. She blamed the youth sex surge on the media's obsession with sex and the explosion of sexually explicit Internet chat rooms.
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    ...and in a separate survey, 72% of boys who have had sex by the age of 14 had it with a married teacher...

    Disturbing trend, but this is the society we've created with our "anything goes anytime" attitude.

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    "They're not emotionally capable of dealing with this," she told the Daily News. She blamed the youth sex surge on the media's obsession with sex and the explosion of sexually explicit Internet chat rooms.
    And where are the parents in all this?
    I'm one of those crazies on your block.

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    My daughter is 14 (will be 15 next month) and it's all I can do to keep her from going there. We discuss it everyday, all day. It is what all her friends are doing, and I'm quite sure I won't be able to keep her a virgin much longer. Still, I will not give up. 16 was young for me in retrospect, but 14 is insane. At least this story confirms that it is not just me struggling with this.

    Oh, and that's the thing - the parents are at work or oblivious. The kids tell the p's that they are going to one person's house, then actually go to another's... Half the time the p's think their kid is somewhere when they never went there in the first place. They all lie to us parents about where they really are, and cover for eachother. This isn't a new game, and I'm aware of it, so I call and check on her, talk to the parents who verify if she is there or not, and she has a cell so that I can find her without any excuses. Still, there's plenty of opportunity no matter how strict I am. I just hope I'm raising her with better self respect... when it comes down to it, that's what I must rely on.
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    Quote Originally Posted by JWS_5150
    And where are the parents in all this?
    Fucking the step-parents, or step-parents to be...
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    Man, what happened to kids being kids?

    I'm not a prude but I don't see this as a good thing. I was a total spaz when I was 14, even if I'd lucked out and got laid I wouldn't have been any good. I always thought that sex was something to look forward to after I got out of highschool. You know how teenagers are, could you imagine what it must be like to be labled a "Lousy Lay" at the age of 14? I wanted to die after I got grief from a bad hair cut.

    I like sex as much as the next red-blooded Amercian male, but there's a time and a place for it. Junior Highschool is not the time.
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    I agree. That's a little much for a 14 year old.

    And yeah, where are the parents???
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    I lost mine at 14. I was way to young, wayyyyyy to young. I was not mature enough to handle the after part. It really kind of messed me up in the head a few weeks. I felt like I had thrown my childhood out the wondow. I was not prepared such a intimate act.
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    Quote Originally Posted by smithjc
    I agree. That's a little much for a 14 year old.

    And yeah, where are the parents???
    Gettin' high with their Emo kids.....

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    You bad!!!

    Man 14's way too young for anything like that. At least I waited til I was 19 for criminy sake!!
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    I think it was you or SEA that said "babies havin' babies"...that was a pretty good way of putting things...

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    We probably both did. I know I have. And it's true too.
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    Quote Originally Posted by OLO
    I lost mine at 14. I was way to young, wayyyyyy to young. I was not mature enough to handle the after part. It really kind of messed me up in the head a few weeks. I felt like I had thrown my childhood out the wondow. I was not prepared such a intimate act.


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    LMAO......you fuckers kill me...

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    I was 14. And that was in the 80s. I mostly remember mosquitos on my ass
    and pine straw on my balls, but it was worth it. I could not get rid of my
    virginity soon enough. I think I intuitively knew that it wouldn't be perfect
    and it would only get better with practice. I don't expect kids today feel
    much differently. Grass on the field and all that...
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