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    Well as many of you may or may not know I've been lurking around here for quite awhile but this is the first thread that I've started, I thought it might be nice to get some imput from you guys and gals.

    Anyway this girl who I've been dating for about seven month decided today that it was time to break things off. We have had some rough times but nothing too too bad. From my stand point what I see as being the problem is that she is five years younger and still has a lot of time that she need to do the "crazy shit" that we all do once we turn twenty-one. There have been times when I have gotten pissed about things. i.e. her hanging on random guys at the bar. but that is pretty much about it, but I guess those have ended up being some dumb ass fights. And all those fights about dumb shit ended up in what happened today.

    All I know is that I love this girl with all my heart and I am willing to do whatever it take to keep her in my life. What do you guys think, should I just let it go or should I wait awhile and see if I can patch things up and give it another go. Even though I'm not sure if she is willing to do that. Anyway I was just curious as to what everyone's opinion would be on this, since I'm pretty sure almost everyone has gone through the same thing more than once.

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    Hang in there man.

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    I really though that she was the one that I was going to settle down with, I think that is why it hurts so much this time.

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    One of the smartest things a good friend said to me was "Don't ever date a girl who isn't 21 yet and expect it to last once she turns 21."

    Our age difference was almost the same as you and her's.

    My friend said this because I was starting to talk about the "M Word".

    If you two are anything like my exgirlfriend and I were, with her turning 21 and wanting to get the partying out of her system, you both aren't on the same page. Unless you are both on the same page or at least same book, there isn't a chance in hell it will work.

    If you want advice, find some hottie and Release the Poison and Run. Don't forget the "and run" part. Everyone always does. I also pretty much can bet she is fucking someone else. Women usually never leave unless they're nailing someone else.
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    HARD REALITY:

    She has made the decision to move on. You should too. She is NOT the only woman out there, and (although it doesn't feel like it) you WILL get over her.

    She had a plan, and a reason, and often times there is no talking them out of it. Best thing to do is just spend time with friends, bond, drink, party, and STAY AWAY from her. Someone else will come by when you're not even looking.

    We've all gone thru this.....and your best bet is to ride off in the sunset with the head held high knowing that you had some good times with her. You'll have em with someone new soon enough.
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    Quote Originally Posted by fast98dodge
    One of the smartest things a good friend said to me was "Don't ever date a girl who isn't 21 yet and expect it to last once she turns 21."

    Our age difference was almost the same as you and her's.

    My friend said this because I was starting to talk about the "M Word".

    If you two are anything like my exgirlfriend and I were, with her turning 21 and wanting to get the partying out of her system, you both aren't on the same page. Unless you are both on the same page or at least same book, there isn't a chance in hell it will work.

    If you want advice, find some hottie and Release the Poison and Run. Don't forget the "and run" part. Everyone always does. I also pretty much can bet she is fucking someone else. Women usually never leave unless they're nailing someone else.
    That was kind of harsh man, I sense you have had a jaded past?
    Anyway, what does she say about you thinking she is the one for you Judgement?
    Just go for it!

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    She told me that she thought the same thing, but that was until she realized that there were going to be times that I wasn't going put of with her crazy shit at the bar and then things kinda changed. Also another hard part of our relationship came at the beginning of this month when we took a week off from seeing each other, which was in my opinion a good idea, but then soon after I realized that she had absolutely no time to work on our relationship with, school, work and her sorority.

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    With what you just said, let her go. I know it will be hard, but she is not ready for any type of settling down, as hard as it may seem. Most honest guys have been through it. Stick to your guns and move on....you can't trust her right now.
    Just go for it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by BREW CREW
    That was kind of harsh man, I sense you have had a jaded past?
    Not jaded enough if you know what I mean...

    I just call it like I see it... (which is usually wrong)

    BTW, Judgment, listen to the Scummeister, he's got great advice on this!
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    Can't give the best advice right now as I have my own problems at the moment. But Scum has it right. Ain't nothin' gonna stop her from getting her of-age partying out of her system. Let her go. You'll be amazed when you find the real one that she really wasn't it. The time isn't right for you and her.
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    Can we start a He-Man Woman Haters club 'round here?
    Why is it the girl is always the one who decides to split?

    Lets hear a story about a guy kickin' a girl to the curb to cheer every one up.








    My advice is to start drinking heavily.





    Just for a lil while.

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    I would like to thank you guys for all you advice, keep it coming, at least it's making me feel better about what I should do, no matter what you say.

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    If it doesnt matter what we say....then.......

    Personally, I like to live my life by this philosophy (laid down by Denis Leary):

    "Life sucks, get a fuckin helmet."

    Besides your parents, only one person on this planet gives a shit about you, and that's YOU. Only YOU can make you happy and only YOU can keep you going. This girl you're pining for......she's probably and very likely gnawing on someone else right now. I hate to be the bearer if the shitty news, but it's more than a possibility that she's planning to use her panties as a sailing rig come Saturday night (roughly about 2 am).

    Don't you owe it to yourself to get yourself into some of your own trouble? Bud, make plans....she is. Call the buds, find out where THE party is this weekend, and GO.

    Don't go to score, don't go to mope, go to have fun. The good times will find you. The best adventures always happen by accident, my friend.
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    Quote Originally Posted by LowLifeFlatHeadScum
    If it doesnt matter what we say....then.......

    Personally, I like to live my life by this philosophy (laid down by Denis Leary):

    "Life sucks, get a fuckin helmet."

    Besides your parents, only one person on this planet gives a shit about you, and that's YOU. Only YOU can make you happy and only YOU can keep you going. This girl you're pining for......she's probably and very likely gnawing on someone else right now. I hate to be the bearer if the shitty news, but it's more than a possibility that she's planning to use her panties as a sailing rig come Saturday night (roughly about 2 am).

    Don't you owe it to yourself to get yourself into some of your own trouble? Bud, make plans....she is. Call the buds, find out where THE party is this weekend, and GO.

    Don't go to score, don't go to mope, go to have fun. The good times will find you. The best adventures always happen by accident, my friend.
    i agree totally...

 

 

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