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    Hey All,

    Let me first start off by saying that this is not meant to be mean spirited or hurtful. I just wanted to ask a question and see what people have to say. OK? So here we go: Did any of you marry the prettiest and sexiest woman that you ever saw - only to have them get fat and essentially let themself go completely (and not because of kids). While your love for them, may not have deminished at all - were you sort of hoping that you were going to stay married to prettiest/sexiest woman that you had the very lucky opportunity to meet at one time.

    I am just curious - because guys spend so much time trying to get with the hot girl in school or wherever...instead of the just cute girl with the awsome personality and I want to know if it ultimately paid off. Tell me your stories...

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    That's pretty interesting just to sort of reflect on.

    I'm not married and I'm only 22 years old but I can but I can relate to this in a big way.

    I think it happens with everybody and just women depending on your metabolism throughout life, I guess.

    The longest relationship I've ever had was 4 years and I can honestly say that yeah, she didn't look like the same person I had met 4 years earlier. This is NOT the reason why split up, by the way! lol I just think everybody get's comfy in the position they're in and and somewhat let's themselves go one way or the othe whether it's with the way they dress, act, eat, (more or less) workout, ect. Sometimes that stops after a while because people are happy where they are and don't want to move or change.

    My personal theory on that is that if you find somebody with a lot of self-respect, not egotistical, not nessesarly narcissistic, but somebody that really cares about they're phyisical appearance for you and for them, then these things just don't happen.

    BUT... One way or the other, man or woman, when you get to be a ceratin age, you're going to rather have sex with a hole in the wall than with them. Looks certainly aren't forever.

    Just my thoughts and experience with it all.

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    Well, I've been married alittle over a year now so my wife really hasn't had the time to "let her body go".

    But truthfully, my wife isn't super-model gorgeous (i.e. Kathy Ireland-ish) but looks isn't all that counts. To me she is beautiful and if anybody says she is ugly, I have a can of whoop-ass waiting for ya'. I don't care if down the road and after a few kids, my wife gets alittle "round" in the mid-section. I did not marry her for good looks but I did for her beliefs and personality. I consider her looks an added bonus.

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    My wife is VERY hot but kinda nutty! So I did wonderfully!
    We both go to the gym so hopefully that will allow us to stay fit as we grow older. I am pleased with my choice for sure!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Wolfgang Slinger
    BUT... One way or the other, man or woman, when you get to be a ceratin age, you're going to rather have sex with a hole in the wall than with them. Looks certainly aren't forever.
    I think you'd be closer to the mark if you said you'd be happy just having ANY sex at a certain age...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Wolfgang Slinger
    That's pretty interesting just to sort of reflect on.

    I'm not married and I'm only 22 years old but I can but I can relate to this in a big way.

    I think it happens with everybody and just women depending on your metabolism throughout life, I guess.

    The longest relationship I've ever had was 4 years and I can honestly say that yeah, she didn't look like the same person I had met 4 years earlier. This is NOT the reason why split up, by the way! lol I just think everybody get's comfy in the position they're in and and somewhat let's themselves go one way or the othe whether it's with the way they dress, act, eat, (more or less) workout, ect. Sometimes that stops after a while because people are happy where they are and don't want to move or change.

    My personal theory on that is that if you find somebody with a lot of self-respect, not egotistical, not nessesarly narcissistic, but somebody that really cares about they're phyisical appearance for you and for them, then these things just don't happen.

    BUT... One way or the other, man or woman, when you get to be a ceratin age, you're going to rather have sex with a hole in the wall than with them. Looks certainly aren't forever.

    Just my thoughts and experience with it all.
    You are only 22 for christ's sake, the reason she didn't look the same after 4 years is that she probably got her braces off and developed breasts.
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    Check her mom out. Thats usually what you've got to look forward to in the future.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Raoul Duke
    You are only 22 for christ's sake, the reason she didn't look the same after 4 years is that she probably got her braces off and developed breasts.
    I was 18 and she was 24 when we started. Thanks.
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    Quote Originally Posted by weesfreewheelin
    Check her mom out. Thats usually what you've got to look forward to in the future.
    This is very true in a lot of cases.

    I've noticed that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Wolfgang Slinger
    I was 18 and she was 24 when we started. Thanks.
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    My wife of almost 10 years is hot. We've been together since 1991 and she has really gotten better looking to me. She takes great care of herself, me and our two boys (7 and 8). She is a stay at home domestic goddess (she calls herself that when she is asked what she does . We have a great relationship....I am often told, by friends, and I do realize, that I am blessed!
    NO I am not going to post pics you fuckin pervs, so don't ask....well, no pics until I am darn ready for the usual comments from y'all
    So, no.....I have nothing to relate too personally for this topic of hot to fat.
    Just go for it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by BREW CREW
    My wife of almost 10 years is hot. We've been together since 1991 and she has really gotten better looking to me. She takes great care of herself, me and our two boys (7 and 8). She is a stay at home domestic goddess (she calls herself that when she is asked what she does . We have a great relationship....I am often told, by friends, and I do realize, that I am blessed!
    NO I am not going to post pics you fuckin pervs, so don't ask....well, no pics until I am darn ready for the usual comments from y'all
    So, no.....I have nothing to relate too personally for this topic of hot to fat.

    I salute you!

    Regardless of whether I see a picture of her or whether I think she's hot, or not, when you can speak and think like that of your wife of ten years with two kids, good catch and you've got it made. You've got a woman that respects herself and obviously the family.

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    If it's about looks then don't get married. For better or for worse means just that, if you love her then you don't give a shit if she puts on a little weight. Unless it's so much weight that it effects her health there's nothing to bitch about.

    If you love her but it's an issue then get busy, learn to cook and get home early and make a healthy but great dinner. Buy a pair of bikes and go for a ride after you eat. Plus, ride them on the weekends. Plan frequent active vacations where you go hiking or skiing or swimming. It will be good for both of you and she'll never catch on.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BREW CREW
    My wife of almost 10 years is hot. We've been together since 1991 and she has really gotten better looking to me. She takes great care of herself, me and our two boys (7 and 8). She is a stay at home domestic goddess (she calls herself that when she is asked what she does . We have a great relationship....I am often told, by friends, and I do realize, that I am blessed!
    NO I am not going to post pics you fuckin pervs, so don't ask....well, no pics until I am darn ready for the usual comments from y'all
    So, no.....I have nothing to relate too personally for this topic of hot to fat.
    OK.....No need to post pics. Just post measurements!
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    I'm still very much in love with my wifes ass. I feel she is way fine. Of course I have an advantage over many of you in that she's asian. Asians age very nicely.

    Funny thing is, when I was younger I actually did take in to consideration what weesfreewheelin suggested about looking at her mom. I saw her and said to myself, "I can live with that".
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