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    Me and my wife! DAMN right now she has me sooooo frustrated!!! Okay...our house is being remodeled...or should I say repaired.
    Lemme update you: We bought our house last January. Moved in, got all settled and were loving it along with the kids(x3). This past October we got beat down HARD by the hurricanes. Our bedroom ceiling colapsed, we had carpet damage throughout the house and have been waiting for over 3 months to get our roof replaced. We have a roof but it's nothing but plywood and tarps. So for the past 3+ months we have been sleeping in our living room on the couch...bodies on the couch...legs on the ottoman.
    Now our roof is FINALLY done this week...and our bedroom ceiling is being replaced as I type. So all of the SHIT we had stored in our bedroom is now in our living room/bedroom/storage area. Luckily the kids rooms were not touched one bit.
    Anyway...we are at a boiling point I think. We are at each other's throats over absolutely nothing these days. She and I fight differently as most of us do. She gets quiet and passive agressive and I get mean(I don't beat her ass or anything..to set the record staight lol) but I do get mean and short tempered which surely makes things worse and adds fuel to the fire. Then after days of this passes...she acts like nothing happened and I am like fuck that I am pissed off.
    I am beginning to realize this thread is nothing but blabber ! DAMN am I ever frustrated!! GRRRRRRRR!! It's like I want this shit to stop but DAMNED if I am gonna be the one! Real mature huh?
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    Quote Originally Posted by BottomzUp
    Me and my wife! DAMN right now she has me sooooo frustrated!!! Okay...our house is being remodeled...or should I say repaired.
    Lemme update you: We bought our house last January. Moved in, got all settled and were loving it along with the kids(x3). This past October we got beat down HARD by the hurricanes. Our bedroom ceiling colapsed, we had carpet damage throughout the house and have been waiting for over 3 months to get our roof replaced. We have a roof but it's nothing but plywood and tarps. So for the past 3+ months we have been sleeping in our living room on the couch...bodies on the couch...legs on the ottoman.
    Now our roof is FINALLY done this week...and our bedroom ceiling is being replaced as I type. So all of the SHIT we had stored in our bedroom is now in our living room/bedroom/storage area. Luckily the kids rooms were not touched one bit.
    Anyway...we are at a boiling point I think. We are at each other's throats over absolutely nothing these days. She and I fight differently as most of us do. She gets quiet and passive agressive and I get mean(I don't beat her ass or anything..to set the record staight lol) but I do get mean and short tempered which surely makes things worse and adds fuel to the fire. Then after days of this passes...she acts like nothing happened and I am like fuck that I am pissed off.
    I am beginning to realize this thread is nothing but blabber ! DAMN am I ever frustrated!! GRRRRRRRR!! It's like I want this shit to stop but DAMNED if I am gonna be the one! Real mature huh?
    Get yourself a sitter and take her for a romantic weekend on the beachfront, and better yet make it a total surprise. You handle everything, sitter, reservations, all details. You'll both be smiling for weeks.

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    Dude, you need to remember to just take it easy. It sounds like complete hell that you are going through, but it will pass soon enough. If you start to get angry or frustrated, just walk away for a little bit to cool the ole' jets. When it is all over, take the wife to a nice place and spend some quality time together. Life will be good!
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    Quote Originally Posted by BottomzUp
    We are at each other's throats over absolutely nothing these days. She and I fight differently as most of us do. She gets quiet and passive agressive and I get mean(I don't beat her ass or anything..to set the record staight lol) but I do get mean and short tempered which surely makes things worse and adds fuel to the fire. Then after days of this passes...she acts like nothing happened and I am like fuck that I am pissed off.
    sounds all too familiar...

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    Quote Originally Posted by DaleT
    Get yourself a sitter and take her for a romantic weekend on the beachfront, and better yet make it a total surprise. You handle everything, sitter, reservations, all details. You'll both be smiling for weeks.
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    Hey Bottom,

    Any type of construction on a house is very stressful. My wife and I just built a huge home, and durning the process, I was certain that 1 of us wasn't not going to have the pleasure of living in it. Some of the most hard fought battles, occured durning the building of this S.O.B. And we were arguing about shit that was so petty, it's really funny lookin back at it. Both my wife and I are total opposites, when it comes to decorating and decor.

    But, we had to find common ground. I swear if a lawyer would have thrown DIVORCE papers in front of me, I would have signed those BIAOCHES!!!!!!

    Like someone said, step back away, you 2 get your composure, and treat each other to a nice time out, and away from this project.

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    i am also a fireball...at times...and its tough. but you've realized that you are simply being stubborn...and so it is up to you to make the compromise now...give her what she wants, as long as it isnt a non-negotiable issue...and then do the surprise thing. you will have hit her between the eyes and she wont stop making it up to you for quite a time...

    all good idea's!
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    Quote Originally Posted by DaleT
    Get yourself a sitter and take her for a romantic weekend on the beachfront, and better yet make it a total surprise. You handle everything, sitter, reservations, all details. You'll both be smiling for weeks.



    Fuck that...........Divorce her !





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    Take a break, come on and fly out to Vegas or Phoenix, stay at nice resort and do a spa treatment for her and a little outdoor stuff for you.

    If anyhting just take a break for the situation.

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    Thanks for all the suggestions and understandings! Once my bail arrives and I am released(j/k) we will try to relax. Yeah, the house is in shambles but we will hopefully be done in a week or so. Well our bedroom furniture won't be here for 3 weeks but I don't care. I'll fucking sleep on my bedroom floor at this point. I actually AM going to Vegas Super Bowl weekend...but she won't be going. Yeah...she's REAL siked about that! We try to get out but our kids are 11,5 and almost 3. Our babysitter recently got a full time job at fridays(what..our $5 an hour wasn't good enough? lol) so we are 'sitterless in seattle'(florida actually) My family lives in Detroit and hers is too mental to watch our kids so as far as getting out goes....it might be a while. As for divorce? She has a few good years left in her so I'll keep her around a bit longer. I think when the 2008's roll around it might be time to do a trade in.
    Oh well.....it's good to know that I am not alone in this sort of madness!
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    not being able to get out is a common cause of exactly what you are going through..even w/o the house mess on top of it..
    you two must have a good relationship!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by perticelli
    not being able to get out is a common cause of exactly what you are going through..even w/o the house mess on top of it..
    you two must have a good relationship!!
    It does drive us completely mad though at times. My parents were in town a month or so back. The wife(Trish) and I went to the PHARMACY alone and felt like we were on a second honeymoon! Now THAT is bad! We are back in the hunt for a sitter and boy is that a time consuming endeavor. Just as much as I'd like to grab a 'Will Work For Food' guy, ya' can't exactly do that.
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    we try and plan a week away each yr..we go to vegas and live like honeymooners...we arrange for our parents to watch the kids well inadvance...maybe you can try something like that?
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