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    This guy contacted me after seeing my msn profile. He lives here in the same town as I do. I've been chatting with him almost all day and just got off the phone with him. He seems ok, even admitted right up front that he's married. I told him I wasn't really into married men and he said that's ok, we can just be friends. *skepticism rears it ugly head* He talked me into meeting him tonight at 8 at a VERY public place.

    Whaddya think? I'm not asking you to tell me if I should or not, cuz I'm gonna. I just wanna know if I'm totally insane. Also, if anyone has any advice.

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    We can just be friends..
    That's good.
    You're not really that gullible, are you chelle?

    [ December 10, 2001 at 03:13 PM: Message edited by: tribb ]</p>

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    LOL! You're crazy.

    I've done it too though, and I've been lucky always worked out well. Met some of the peeps from here and other places on the internet in real life and love 'em all!

    Be safe though. Let someone you know, know where you are and give them his personal info, as well as where you're going to meet. And what the heck, bring a friend along. You can always shine the friend on (with a pre-established cue) if things are going well, and you'd like to be alone with Mr. Wonderful... but have a date to contact that friend when you get home.

    Have fun Chelle!
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    Yeah, your probably pretty nuts. Advice? Bring mace and a condom. You never know which way it will go, and neither would he. And who knows, it may work out to where you can use both depending on what kind of a freak you are.

    Seenbads advice column. Archive #228 [img]graemlins/thumb.gif[/img]

    Good luck.

    Leave your real name and address to somebody that you trust so that if they dont hear from you tomorrow they know to call the cops. Leave them the dudes phone # too. [img]smile.gif[/img]

    [ December 10, 2001 at 03:15 PM: Message edited by: seenbad ]

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    And here's hoping that you don't need the mace and you DO need the condom! [img]graemlins/bounce.gif[/img]
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    Well, Since I never want to be the other woman I would NOT go. If he's married, yet stepping out to meet you, that doesn't speek too highly of him. How often does he do this sort of thing. I see you getting into a sneek around situation which is not what you need girl. NEVER BE SECOND TO ANYONE! If he were her on business and you met some place and had a one night stand, it'd be different. Your happy he's happy, he goes home and it's over BUT with him living so close....You do it once then again, then the feelings flow...presto, your caught up in it and your in bed alone everynight while he cuddles up to the MRS...JMHO! AND....YOU DESERVE MORE!
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    Well, youre not crazy, but youre doing a crazy thing..is that it!?? lol
    I respect VHLGGBs opinion...but the bottom line is- you, Michelle, are not crazy, you are quite bright, and you have to follow your instincts. Do you have a feeling this might go someplace eventually??
    ..she got a rainbow that touches her shoulder....

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    With all due respect here to my PD girlfriends...It's obvious that wherever it goes, it's going to bring caos and heartache and TROUBLE! HE'S MARRIED, he is not available. If you just want to screw, find someone who is NOT married! If it's a relationship your after, he is not available find someone who is. Dont do this to yourself, or to another woman. If he's telling you how bad his marriage is, tell him to call you when he has HIS OWN place, until then hit the high road and look elsewhere.
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    Yikes! I missed the married part... [img]graemlins/scared.gif[/img]

    ...and I gotta agree with VHLGGB. You don't want to be the other woman. If he IS stepping out on his wife, and you DO manage to develop a relationship, AND he leaves his wife for you, won't you always wonder if he's stepping out on you?

    If you're looking for a friend, then wonderful. If you're looking for a relationship, then save yourself the heartache.

    Don't know you Chelle, but I trust the other girls' opinions of you. Be good to you, and walk away from this.
    "May you die at age 128, in bed, shot to death by a jealous lover" DLR 2002

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    Meeting people you know from the internet in person seems kinda shady to me. I haven't done it nor do I plan too. I think seenbad's advice is really good tho if you're gonna do it.
    "There's a time and place for everything- for everyone."

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    <blockquote>quote:</font><hr>Originally posted by tribb:
    We can just be friends..
    That's good.
    You're not really that gullible, are you chelle?
    <hr></blockquote>


    Uhm.....actually, yeah I kinda am. LOL

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    <blockquote>quote:</font><hr>Originally posted by VHLGGB:
    presto, your caught up in it and your in bed alone everynight while he cuddles up to the MRS...JMHO! AND....YOU DESERVE MORE!<hr></blockquote>


    I'm alone in bed every night anyways. What the hell. Besides, I'm not looking for someone to share living space with, just someone to spend some time with. It gets kinda tiresome just hanging out with the kids all the time, ya know?

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    quote:
    Originally posted by Chelle:
    It gets kinda tiresome just hanging out with the kids all the time, ya know?


    That's what my wife says every night, and we don't have any kids. [img]smile.gif[/img]
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    <blockquote>quote:</font><hr>Originally posted by Brett:


    That's what my wife says every night, and we don't have any kids. [img]smile.gif[/img]
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    LOL

    LOL@Mace and a condom. I think that's the best advice so far

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    quote:
    Originally posted by Chelle:


    LOL@Mace and a condom. I think that's the best advice so far



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